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What to Expect When You Are Expecting – A Cute Movie About the Highs and Lows While Waiting for Baby

I was invited to screen the new movie, What to Expect When You Are Expecting, this Monday in Denver. I was looking forward to seeing the movie but didn’t hold a lot of expectations for it.

I attended the screening on behalf of Centrum Specialist® Prenatal vitamins. They sent me and 10 lucky winners to attend the movie.

Centrum Specialist® Prenatal is a complete multivitamin specifically designed to support your baby’s growth and development, plus your own pregnancy health.* It provides all the health benefits from Centrum®, the #1 doctor recommended brand. For more information on Centrum Specialist® PreNatal, visit the Centrum® – Nutrition Possible Facebook page (Facebook.com/CentrumNutritionPossible).

What to Expect follows five couples through their different and intersecting journeys of having a baby. Each mother and father to be quickly learn that no matter what you expect, life always has different plans. The movie has an all-star cast which includes Cameron Diaz, Jennifer Lopez, Elizabeth Banks, Chance Crawford, Brooklyn Decker, Dennis Quaid and Chris Rock.

I enjoyed this movie. It tries to be real while keeping a sense of humor about the whole life changing event. I’m not sure I really identified truly with any of the expectant mothers (a Hollywood star with a surprise pregnancy, a young mother, an adoptive mother, a trophy wife mother and a perfectionist mother.) Not that I completely needed to identify to enjoy the movie, but all tell the story of coming into parenthood.

What I really liked about this movie is that they also focused on the dads and their perspective. I loved the Dudes Group, which includes leader Chris Rock. The Dudes are a group of established fathers who meet once a week at a park and support each other. The first rule of Dudes Group is no one shares what is said or happens in group. Rock is not the first person who comes to mind as an authority on fatherhood, but really steals the movie as the cool, but out of sorts dad.

When an expectant father joins the group to begin to explore fatherhood, he tells Rock’s character that he’s not sure he’s ready. Rock responds with my favorite line, “No one is ever ready. You just jump on the train and hope you don’t die.”

If you are a parent or expectant parent, go see this movie. It’s fun, it’s light, and a good laugh. I reminisced about my own pregnancies and smiled about all the expectations I had set up before getting pregnant and how each one was individually shattered.

What to Expect When You’re Expecting – Movie Screening Ticket Giveaway!

I read What to Expect When You Are Expecting religiously when I was pregnant with my first child over 10 years (yikes!) ago. Now, I can’t wait to see the new movie by the same name, What to Expect When You Are Expecting, starring Cameron Diaz, Jennifer Lopez and Chris Rock. The comedy follows five couples whose lives are turned upside down by their pregnancy.

The book was my map to navigating the pregnancy journey I was on. The one thing I learned was whatever I could research, expect and plan all I wanted, but the baby and my body had their own plan.

I knew I’d have aches and pains, but didn’t expect the different aches and pains in places I didn’t know I had. I was prepared for morning sickness, but didn’t expect being nauseous 24 hours a day. I understood that I was choosing a path to parenthood but didn’t expect to come to the realization that there was really no going back…that baby was going to have to come out one way or another.

I was most surprised to learn that pregnancy is not something that happens in your abdomen. From your ankles to the hair on top of your head, the pregnancy hormones make massive changes throughout your body.

I was also surprised when some of these changes didn’t go away with the pregnancy hormones. Once constantly cold feet, my feet were warm and balanced after giving birth. My hair stayed thicker. I had a curvature of my spine inward that did not correct itself.

I also felt freer, happier and at peace with myself when I was pregnant. If I could have only hung onto that…

You can win tickets for you and a friend to see a special screening of the movie  this Monday, May 14th at 7:00p.m. at the United Artists Denver Pavilion by leaving a comment below listing one thing you didn’t expect during your pregnancy. You can enter to win multiple times. Winners will also receive a goodie bag and t-shirt to wear that night.

Please enter if you are able to attend. Winners must arrive at 6:30 p.m.

Contest ends Thursday, May 10 at 5:00p.m. MST. Winners will be notified via email and will have 24 hours to respond.

There are two more Denver bloggers who are also giving away tickets. Make sure you also enter to win on Guessing All the Way and Moose and Tater to increase your chances of winning.

Centrum Specialist® PreNatal wants to create awareness about the importance of taking prenatal vitamins as part of pregnancy nutrition through an exciting promotion across the U.S. On May 14, Centrum Specialist® PreNatal will host expecting and new mothers in at a special advance screening of the highly anticipated movie, What to Expect When You’re Expecting, by Lionsgate.

Centrum Specialist® Prenatal is a complete multivitamin specifically designed to support your baby’s growth and development, plus your own pregnancy health.* It provides all the health benefits from Centrum®, the #1 doctor recommended brand.

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Rules for Prenatal “What to Expect” Screening Tickets:

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  • Enter by submitting the required information, specified by the host blogger. Use of automated or scripted programs to submit entries are prohibited.
  • Five winners will be randomly selected by the blogger to win two advance screening tickets of the feature film What to Expect When You’re Expecting!; each winner gets two tickets (one for themselves and one for a friend.)
  • Host Blogger will choose winners from all eligible entries at random. The winner will be contacted via email by blogger. If a winner does not respond within 24 hours, the blogger will select another prize winner. All decisions are final. Winner must respond with a preferred t-shirt size for themselves and their guest (ranging from S-XL maternity size.)
  • All winners are requested to wear their t-shirts on the day of the advance screening.
  • Odds of winning depend on the number and timing of the entries provided. Failure to respond to prize notification or provide required information may result in forfeiture of the prize and award.
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Disclaimer:
I am participating in a sponsored campaign hosted by Centrum Specialist® Prenatal multivitamins. I received compensation for this post. While all opinions stated are my own, I make no claims about Centrum Specialist® Prenatal as a product or its effectiveness.


Tuesday Tunes – Jason Myles Goss

I discovered Jason Myles Goss on Pandora Radio several months back and I’m hooked. I love acoustic guitar and unplugged music and Jason has it. If you are looking to sit in the shade, sip some tea and relax on a lazy Sunday afternoon, this is the music for you.

My favorite song is Twilight Serenade from his album Another Ghost. He also has a fourth album out called Radio Dial.

Tuesday Tunes – Matt Wertz

I came across Matt Wertz while listening to Pandora. I love Pandora for all of the new music and artists it has exposed me to. Here is one of my favorites.

So check out Matt Wertz and his music. You won’t be sorry. You can even buy a t-shirt on his website.

This recording is very raw and not highly produced, but I like that about it. Not all music needs to be so over produced and synthesized to be good. Sometimes just a guy and a guitar on stage is perfect. Don’t forget to check out Matt on iTunes.

The Day Forever Died

Tuesday Tunes – A Tribute to Vince LaGuardia and the Arapahoe Philharmonic

My friend Rajean encouraged me last week to join the blogging series, #TuesdayTunes last week after I discovered a new Jason Mraz tune, I Won’t Give Up on her blog. I love the song and it’s added on my playlist.

I was trying to find something unique, creative and new for my #TuesdayTunes post. Then, my mentor and former orchestra conductor, Vince LaGuardia, passed away suddenly over the weekend. Rajean encouraged me to celebrate his life in my post.

Here is a performance of Beethoven’s “Emperor” Concerto by the Arapahoe Philharmonic and the very talented pianist, Jamie Shaak.

I’m also including my favorite piece that I performed with the University of Denver orchestra under Vince a few too many years ago. I remember Vince loved Respighi, and specifically this piece too. I had never heard of Respighi but I quickly fell in love, thanks to Vince. I will always think of Vince when listening to the Pines of Rome and remember is vibrant conducting style. Charley Samson dedicated his radio show, Colorado Spotlight on KVOD last night and included this piece. I don’t have my specific performance of Respighi’s the Pines of Rome, so here it is performed by the Chicago Symphony in Fantasia 2000.

Good Night Vince – A Truly Inspiring Man

The world has lost one of its best. An inspiration to so many, a mentor to even more. Vince LaGuardia passed away last Friday night doing what he loved most – making music.

I met Vince after I had graduated high school and had decided that pre-med wasn’t for me and maybe music was a better fit. My family had given me the weak smile of covered up disapproval but surface support after I told them at Christmas that I was quitting school and pre-med to take up bass studies and music business.

I knew Vince’s brother Darrel from my high school. He was my beloved orchestra conductor and mentor. Darrel meant the world to me and I credit him with a lot in helping to shape my young mind and life plans.

Darrel told me his brother was the conductor at the University of Denver and I should audition. I wasn’t sure I could afford DU but if there was a LaGuardia there, I wanted to be there.

So I auditioned and was offered a scholarship that would make DU less expensive for me than CU.

Vince possessed everything Darrel did – he was an amazing human being and talented musician. Music oozed from his soul. You knew a song played from his heart because you could feel it when you were near him.

I was still unsure that I could truly make a career out of music – it was kind of an unconventional path. But Vince showed me that music was more than a choice. It chose you, consumed you and took you down a path all its own.

It wasn’t about finding a career in music, it was about making the music a part of you. Whether or not you held a job in music was secondary.

I learned what it truly meant to be a musician and how to play music from Vince. It wasn’t about playing the notes on a page, it was about feeling it, understanding it and letting it run through your veins. It wasn’t worth it to play music, any music, unless you were going to make it a part of your soul.

Vince was only at DU for my first year.

I followed him to the Arapahoe Philharmonic and played with them for almost 10 years. It was a long drive to rehearsals and concerts but it was worth every minute to be honored enough to sit in Vince’s orchestra.

Vince touched the lives of so many – children and adults through his music and awe-inspiring soul.

Just being near him made me feel so happy and warm. His aura shone so strong.

I will never forget watching Vince on the podium conducting an orchestra. It was beautiful. It was poetic. You could see the music of his soul pulsing through him. He was the music.

Now his song is silenced and the world has not only lost a true music giant but also a bright light and beautiful, beautiful soul.

Rest in peace Vince. You will be sorely missed by so, so many of those whose lives you have touched, young and old. I’m so blessed to have known you.

For more on Vince, read the story on 9News.com.

Traveling Through Asia – Part 2

This is email #2 from my niece who is traveling across Asia for the next five months. Please follow the entire series in my Travel category.

Ni Hao

(That means hello).  What a wacky two days it’s been already.  China, first impressions: BIG.  Crowded.  Beijing is  unbelievably large, it’s like Denver X1000.  And people are everywhere.  There appears to be no rhyme or reason to the roads, I don’t think even traffic signals apply, lanes are also a fairly non-existent guideline.  Pedestrians, bicycles, motorbikes, busses, taxis and cars all cramming together.  Honking essentially means “I’m coming at you full speed so get out of the way.” and honking is non-stop.  Mostly while crossing we stick to the walking bridges like in Las Vegas, or just try and stay with the large groups of people.

Yesterday was our first official day out, and we went to Tian’anmen Square and the Forbidden City.  It was overwhelmingly large and very beautiful.  It was really our first lesson in Tourism in China.  On our walk there, we were “befriended” by an incredibly friendly “student” who wanted to practice his English.  He walked with us for about 15 minutes and asked us  all sorts of questions and we talked about Carmello Anthony and other Denver related items.  He then told us he was an art student having an art exhibition that  he wanted  us to come to.  Kevin shot a look at me and I knew it was going bad.  Kevin is a smart guy, and thankfully researched scams extensively.  It  was a word-for-word scam, where upon entering this art studio, they pressure you into buying something extremely expensive and don’t let you leave until you do.  Good thing Kevin was around, he sure is the best! Anyway, we parted from that guy after much  assurance we’d go to his art studio later that afternoon, and entered the Forbidden City.

About every ten steps we were offered a tour  at a great price, and wouldn’t you know it, we met  another art student! What are the odds!?  Basically what we learned was that anyone who wants to talk to you and practice English with you, is a phony.  Which is disappointing, because in the Airport we actually did meet a very nice old man and his granddaughter who legitimately did want to practice his english.  His granddaughter was extremely cute and told me how beautiful I was and that  she loved me (I loved her too).  She had a stuffed seal and I taught her how to say seal and she was very happy and  sweet.

Anyway, the Forbidden City was spectacular.  It was hard to get a good look  into any of  the rooms though, as there are not really “lines” to see anything, more like mosh pits.  It’s every man, woman, and child for themselves.  I started getting the hang of it today, short of elbowing grandma in the face to see what ever throne was just inside the building.  On our way out we met yet  another group of young Chinese eager to practice their English, perhaps sit down and have some tea and talk.  Kevin informed me that’s another classic scam where you go out together and they stick you with an inflated bill.  So we almost got scammed three  times yesterday, it was exhausting.

Today we went to the Pearl Market (You hear that, mom!? You can stop telling me to buy pearls now).  They don’t sell just pearls there, though, they sell basically everything you think you might need or want, and you have to bargain.  I’d like to say we didn’t get scammed today, but we probably did.  Everything we read said to first offer 10% of the asking price, and they literally laugh in your face  and tell you no.  Then you go up a little further, and you can get about 75% off of any item.  Kevin bought himself some sort of illegal video game for  about 40 CNY originally priced at around 150.  It’s pretty scary in there sometimes.  Walking down the aisle all I could hear was “hello, lady.  Which one you want, take a look.” From about 5 people at the same time from different booths, and  sometimes they were a little grabby.  When you walk away they grab your arm to get you to come back and keep looking.  It’s pretty easy to just walk away though.  Fairly uncomfortable for any westerner.  We might have been ripped off a little bit, but hey, it was the first bargaining experience of our lives.

After, we went to the Temple of Heaven, which was extremely pleasant.  It was just gorgeous, lots of blues, and no one bothered us.  That made it so much better.  We could really just enjoy ourselves without being on the look out for  another scam.  The park surrounding the buildings was very nice, lots of active people around singing and playing cards and games and ribbon dancing.  We have been asked for a picture twice, not for us to take a picture, but for people to pose with us.  It’s weird, but, whatever, we’re happy to oblige.  Perhaps they’re going to tell their families, “Look at these handsome westerners! Couple of lookers!”

Grandma, you’re right about two things: The people here spit all over the place! The worst is the “farmer’s blow” though, ugh, gets me everytime.  And, I used the bathroom today at the Temple of Heaven, and there was no TP!

Our Hotel is down a Hutong, which is an extremely narrow street with many shops, convenience stores and salons.  Also, public restrooms, which is great but a little stinky.  The Hutongs are charming, but extremely dirty.  I was surprised to find our hotel to be so wonderful.  Which is exactly why this email is so long.  Elsewhere, when we have to pay for internet, my emails won’t be so thorough or frequent.  But, taking advantage while I can.

I think that’s all I got right now, hear it’s a blizzard over there?  It’s freezing here, but sunny, so  we’re happy :)  Hope everyone is happy and warm and safe.  LOVE YOU!

Kori  and Kevin

Trip of a Lifetime – Traveling Across Asia

My niece and her boyfriend are on the trip of a lifetime. They have planned a five month excursion through several countries in Asia that began on February 1st in the wee early morning hours. They flew to China for about a week. She is sending friends and family email updates as she can to keep us updated. I am loving receiving these emails and decided (with her permission) to share them on my blog. They are experiencing things most of us can’t even imagine. If I could go back and redo my youth,  I would definitely travel like this…

We’re Still Alive

Bejiing, China

…But barely! I  cannot believe how long that journey was!  A whopping 21 hours on a plane! It was wild.  We  traveled to LA alright, with a little mini nap despite the incredibly obnoxious people two rows behind who would just not stop talking (gonna take a wild guess and say they’re from LA).

We arrived early to LA and devoured the most horrible 10$ sandwich either of us had ever seen and boarded our flight to Shanghai.  Looking around the flight, we felt a little alienated as we were the only people without an iPad (also the only people who didn’t speak Chinese).  The flight was tolerable for the first 7 hours.  The 8-9 after that were less so.  There are only so many ways to sleep, only so many cribbage games.  Anyway, we finally arrived and the weirdest thing happened.  The moment we stepped off the plane, a rather stern, humorless woman was waiting with a sign that said, “Transfer to Beijing.”  She looked at our boarding passes and told us to come with her.  We had no idea why, but we went ahead and just did what she told us.  She ended up taking us through an expediated security area, we literally cut in line! It was great.  Anyhow, she led us straight up to our gate with about an hour to spare.  We have no idea why she did that or who she was, but, we thank her.

Anyway, the last flight was delayed, but we slept through the whole thing, we were extremely exhausted.  When we finally arrived in Beijing we were delighted by the easy airport, and that our bags were some of the first to pop up.  The  cab ride was fine, except that he ended up taking us to the “wrong” place.

Double Happiness Hotel

We had read that sometimes people find it hard to find the hotel because the alley is so narrow that cabs won’t drive down it, but we figured we were tough and could figure it out.  So we went into the building that he dropped us in front of.  The woman immediately waved her  arm to the side and seemed to be telling us where to go, even though we hadn’t asked her.  So we wandered around aimlessly for a few minutes, extremely terrified at this point because this was not a savory alley, not really where you’d wanna be when it gets dark.

Eventually we started following people’s advice.  Every shop owner seemed to know where we were going before we said so, and indeed they did.  We found our hotel, rang the bell, and the nicest man came to welcome us in.  So here we are, at the Double Happiness Hotel.  After  wandering through the alley I expressed that we were Double Happy to be here, and Kevin rolled his eyes at me.  Anyway, we  are safe and happy and this hotel is awesome, clean and beautiful, has a computer in the room! Free internet 24 hours.  So that’s the story of how we got here relatively pain free.  More to come in a few days once we’ve actually done anything in  China :)

-Kori and Kevin

Find a Few Glorious Things and Be Set on Fire By Them

I saw this online this morning and had to share it. I am focusing on those things that set me on fire and learning to let the rest go.

“You don’t have to know a lot of things for your life to make a lasting difference in the world. But you do have to know the few great things that matter, perhaps just one, and then be willing to live for them and die for them. The people that make a durable difference in the world are not the people who have mastered many things, but who have been mastered by one great thing… You don’t have to have good looks or riches or come from a fine family or a fine school. Instead you have to know a few great, majestic, unchanging, obvious, simple, glorious things – or one great all-embracing thing – and be set on fire by them.”  ~John Piper  don’t waste your life

Disney’s Phineas & Ferb – the BEST Live Show Coming to Denver

Ever since this show was announced last year, my girls and I have been excited. We are big Phineas and Ferb fans in our house. There are very few children’s TV shows that adults can also stomach. Phineas and Ferb is one of the few. We love all of the characters, the witty dialogue and catchy songs.

“Mom!  Phineas and Ferb are going on a LIVE tour!!!”  School‘s out for summer and anything is possible as Phineas and Ferb create their biggest invention yet – Disney’s Phineas and Ferb: The Best LIVE Tour Ever! Phineas, Ferb, and the whole tri-state area gang embark on a bold escape jumping out from behind your TV and onto the stage in a live action adventure – right in Denver!

Audiences will be whisked on a wild ride as Phineas and Ferb build their way to another over the top, extraordinary adventure. And, before anyone can wonder, “Hey, where’s Perry?” the beloved pet platypus shifts to his secret double life as Agent P to foil another one of Dr. Doofenshmirtz’s evil plans.  Musical madness abounds in an escapade so awesome that even Candace can’t help but join the hilarious hijinks.  It’s the ultimate end to summer vacation, so seize the day ‘cause Phineas and Ferb are gonna do it all!

Extra shows have been added and tickets are selling out fast so don’t wait.

Show Times:

  • Friday, February 3 at 7:00PM
  • Saturday, February 4 at 1:00 PM, 4:00 PM, & 7:00 PM

Location:
Wells Fargo Theater in Denver

Discount:
Use discount code FFAPF to save $3 on Friday, February 3rd tickets.
(Valid on Friday performance only; excludes VIP and Stage-side seating. No double discounts.)

Ticket Prices:
$16, $22, $27, $42 VIP, & $67 VIP Stage-side
*Service charges and handling fees may apply

For the fastest and easiest way to buy tickets, log onto www.ticketmaster.com or www.disneylive.com or call 1-800-745-3000.

I have received a family four pack of tickets to the show in exchange for promotion. All thoughts are mine.